About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

Joining a life group has never been easier. Using our interactive tools you can search by location, day of the week, and more.

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2021 Trunk-or-Treat

Join us on Halloween for a Trunk-or-Treat at Valley Real Life on October 31st from 3-5pm! This free event is for families with kids of all ages. Wear your costumes, receive lots of candy, and have a great time!

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Come learn more about the vision God has for VRL, our discipleship process, the beliefs that unify us and what makes VRL so great to be a part of.

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered at the Barker campus Tuesday & Fridays.

Men's Breakfast

Let's gather men! On the 2nd Saturday of each month, 8am, we'll have hot breakfast and intentional conversations. Join with the guys of VRL at our monthly gathering for guys only. Come hear a testimony, enjoy intentional discussions and make some new connections.

Young Adult Halloween Party

Are you between 18 and 30? Are you looking for something fun to do this fall? Then we have an event for you! On October 30th from 7:00 pm to 10:00 pm, we are having a young adult Halloween Costume Party. This is an opportunity for you to connect with others for a night full of fun games and food.


Mondays starting September 13th at the Barker campus for 13 weeks VRL offers DivorceCare. Most people will tell you that separation and divorce are the most painful and stressful experiences they've ever faced. DivorceCare is a friendly, caring group of people who will walk alongside you, as you go through this difficult time. Cost $10, Click image above to register.