About Men's Life Groups

What does it mean to be a man? At what point does a boy become a man? Is it determined by achievements, possessions, or a particular age? No, true manhood is measured by character, stature and spiritual strength. The Men’s Life Groups seeks to equip men to be godly leaders in every arena of life. Men who are R.E.A.L., who Reject passivity, Expect a greater reward, God’s reward, Accept responsibility and Lead courageously to the glory of God, will experience God’s best in their lives. Men are the primary influencers in their homes, communities, workplaces and churches. Because this is true, we offer short-term studies, accountability groups, breakfast gatherings and special events throughout the year. Our primary men’s short-term life groups are Chosen to Lead and Men’s Fraternity, details below. However, we have other life groups that meet at various days and times. Click the link below to search the men's life groups.

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DNA | April 25, 2021

Come learn more about the vision God has for VRL, our discipleship process, the beliefs that unify us and what makes VRL so great to be a part of.

Father's Day Car Show 2021

On Father’s Day, June 20th, Valley Real Life will be holding our VRL Father's Day Car Show featuring classic cars and hot rods from all around the Northwest. This Free Family friendly event will take place before and after each of our morning services starting at 7:30am and ending at 2:30pm. Bring the family and eat some lunch with us!

Pure Desire

There is a battle going on with millions of victims trapped in the struggle of sexual addiction with no apparent way out. Pure Desire is the answer. Offered at the Barker campus Tuesday & Fridays and at the Otis campus on Monday evenings.

Radical Mentoring

Men will get the opportunity to be mentored by a more mature Christian man, in a small group of other men, who are looking to live God-centric lives and fulfill their God-given potential. Men are accepted into the program after reviewing applications, as we are looking for men who are ready to commit to a life changing 12 month journey and space in groups is limited, so apply today.

Men's Gathering

Let's gather men! On the 2nd Saturday of each month, 8am, we'll have donuts and intentional conversations. Join with the guys of VRL at our monthly gathering for guys only. Come hear a testimony, enjoy intentional discussions and make some new connections.

Tending Clouds Film Event

Join us for a FREE event on Sunday, April 18th from 6-8pm as Valley Real Life hosts the showing of the documentary Tending Clouds with our partners HRC and The Jonah Project.